If you have that one kid in school whom you either DESPISE or you are sick and tired of them following you around like a homeless dog, the here are some tips!
1-) Start of small. Try not talking to this person. If they are the type of person that thinks you are their friend, then they will ask you what is wrong. If you really hate them, then you shouldn't feel too bad. They drove yo crazy didn't they?
2-) If you are the type of person who doesn't like to get involved in this kind of stuff, then talk to a teachers. If you are wondering why in the world i am asking you to snitch, then just keep reading. Ask a teacher if you can privately talk to them. The teacher will (or should) find a time, and pull you out of class. Then say something along the lines of:
"I do not feel very comfortable around 'Fred'. He kinda bugs me and i don't really have the heart to tell him that i don't want to be friends with him. It is hard for me to avoid him. I don't really know what to do. I want to do this nicely but i am not sure how."
When you use words like 'heart' 'nicely' 'don't know what to do' and 'uncomfortable' the your teacher will defiantly feel like this is something important that she has to handle. Add i things that will really make this stand out.
3-) Sometimes when there is a girl more "popular" the others, some girls feel that to please everyone, including, this popular girl, in order to be liked, and well fit. pppssshhh... girl all this does is MAJORLY PISS off this well-liked girl.
So this is a few scenario's and how to deal with them:
- Tell the girl right up to her face. Confront her. Don't do a lot of yelling. A mad face, smooth but firm voice, and proof is all the girl needs to know that you mean BUSINESS. Even if they start copying you, and liking everything you like just because, then mention that too. Tell her she will never be truly liked if she is copying someone else. If you want add on the sappy "be yourself!" stuff, heck go for it!
- Another thing to do, is do the teacher talk we mentioned. Add sad face gestures, and low voices, and REAL THINGS THAT REALLY DID HAPPEN, and hopefully this should work. Also if you think maybe that this is cheating, and unfair because we are tricking teachers, then we are not. This is pretty true, and you will be doing this without even trying to. So basically, you will have all the face gestures, done while you are talking, because it is something that happens naturally.
- Drop off hints while she is around. Sometimes when she is listening say something around the lines of, "I hate it when people copy others thinking that that is the only way they can be happy. It is sad honestly. People should have the freedom to live there own life, don't you think?" you can come up with something different too, but this is just an idea.
Thanx for reading! I hope that was helpfull! If anyone uses one of these tips, make sure to let me know how it went! Thank you!!